Saturday, 11 May 2013

Be strong :)


Everyone that had been hurt would definitely understand the feeling of heart broken. Usually, a sour ending of previous relationship will bring one person into a sad phase, and if it is serious, sinking into depression is possible. But don't worry, you are not alone. I believe many of us had the experience of heart broken pain before, but you just have to remember, keep your feet together, keep walking, your heart might not be able to take it now, but your feet are stronger than you thought. 


Sometimes it is not about how much it hurts, its about the disappointment that you had after you put ten millions of hope and faith but in the end it gave you nothing but a broken trust. And sometimes it is about the companionship that you used to have when you were in a relationship, and when you lost it, you feel like your life lost a piece of puzzle. and sometimes, it is just memories that still stay in your head. And sometimes, its the dream that has been manipulated in the relationship, and suddenly when everything didn't work, your only dream will just be gone forever. Its like the footprints that you left by the shore, once the wave came and its varnished forever. and that, is the saddest part of everything.


All you need to do is to find a new direction, find a new dream, and start moving to get there. Regardless it is a big or small dream, like losing that 10 pounds, be prettier, to get a doctor degree, saving 10k in your bank account, or going to places that you have always dreamed to go. So stop crying, now is the time to start taking your first step to make it happen. It is hard at the first place, but all these things will get you distracted from the mindfking memories, it will stop you from thinking of the pain, it will help you move on with your life. Trust me, when you are in the middle of making your new dream, you will find yourself much contented and hell happier than before.

Once a relationship breaks, it is forever broken. You can't bend it back to normal. Once you make a wound, there is forever a scar. All you can do is to keep walking forward, everything will be fine, tomorrow will be better, time is the only healer. Depression only takes a tiny small phase in your life. Just keep walking, you will soon the light. And this is me, speaking based on my own experience, and now I am all well and recovered. Depression is not a shameful thing to admit (I used to be embarrassed about it), even I can do it, You can it too. 



Don't give up.

Have faith in life.

God loves you more than you know.

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